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"But how will I know who my Soulmate is?" "By taking risks, " Wicca said to Brida. "By risking failiure, disappointment, disillusion, but never ceasing in your search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end."
Paulo Coelho- Brida

The edges are maybe getting a little softer, but the edginess will always be there. It's who I am. Honest and direct, sometimes to a fault, but it is important to me. I was told something recently that may be good advice, but is a difficult concept for me to embrace. You can't get to the next level if you don't play the game. If I have to stand alone because I don't feel the same way as my peers, colleagues or anybody else, so be it.

The tension in the "Friend or Lover?" stage when you first meet and start getting to know someone is delicious, but how about, instead of dropping oh so subtle hints about how you feel and then acting freaked out when they are acted upon, and pulling out the "I don't see us that way" line, only to resume dropping hints shortly thereafter, you amaze yourself and step over that line and do or say something to help you get what you want and make two people happy instead of resorting to manipulation and deceit based on fear? A tough one, I know. I struggle with it myself. Okay, enough venting. Bottom line. I don't do manipulation or deceit. Either way.

43. 5' 11", 175 pounds, shaved head, blue eyes, moderately hairy. Monogamous, LTR-oriented. (Last relationship lasted 14 years). Looking to date locally and meet new friends, contacts, and who knows what else worldwide. Like witty, furry, intelligent men. Don't just be about what's between your legs, have something between your ears as well. Sensuality is as important as sexuality. Be with me and present, and not just a body next to me in bed. Curious about leather, and open to discussion with safe, sane, experienced leathermen about exploring that further.

Reading, movies, music, (Alternative, Indie, Punk, Funk, Rock, Gothic, Disco, Soul, Electronica, Jazz), languages, travel. Goatee or full beard.

Leo

Slim

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Blue

European

Single

No

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Light Brown

No pets

No

With Roomate(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Observant

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Travel, Cars, Computers

Trying New Things

casual, no expectations, seeing if there's chemistry and what happens after that

Skiing

Friendly

Other

Never

Democrat

To live a happy life without hurting myself or anyone else.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Punk

Fiction, Philosophy, Religious

A laiback date, seeing if there's chemistry and what happens after that

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Be real. No games.

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