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I am a 56 year old male that has recently become a widower from a 25 year gay marriage. I seek same age or younger for fun and possibly an LTR. I am educated, funny, good natured, intelligent, and single. I am a true versatile person. It depends on chemistry and what the other person is into. I love to cuddle and kiss. I own my home outright. Willing to travel and host at home. I am a pudge in that I am about 5'7-5'8 and weigh in at 220. This is what happens when I quit smoking. I do not drink, but do not mind a social drinker. I am a retired semi-pro musician. I have worked in education, mental health, and vocational rehabilitation. I am currently underemployed and seeking a new career path. I am seeking a roommate as well. I am a nudist at heart and have a private courtyard in which I can sun bath or meander in nude. I will respond to all even if we are not a match. Make contact. Don't be shy.

Gemini

Stocky

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Widowed

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Other

Bald

Cat, Dog

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Education / Academic

Currently seeking a new one

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Class Clown

Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Games, Gardening, Music, Reading

Trying New Things

for dinner or an outing with a person where there is mutual attraction. It would be one where the other person was secure enough in themselves to not say "I love you" halfway through the first date.

extreme sports.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Democrat

Currently my goal in life is regaining stability after coming through a tremendously stressful two years.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Reality Shows

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Horror, Thriller

Blues, Classical, Dance, Folk, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soul, I'm A Recording Artist

Ancient, Computers, Fantasy, History, Horror, Instructional, Philosophy, Supernatural, Reference, Science Fiction

Going to the beach, being with friends in social situations, going to movies, antiquing, recording and playing music, nesting, engaging in conversation with intelligent people. laughing, sharing my life with another, reading a book, watching a good movie at home. Setting goals and achieving them. A day in bed with the right person.

Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

I am not sure what I look for. However, what I have found to be true is that I end up with highly intellectual, well educated men that have a sense of humor, are history buffs or professors, professionals in education or healthcare. In my two relationships that spanned 35 years it was chance meetings that brought us together. I wasn't conciously looking for anything at the time. I like Men, not femininity in men. I am currently looking for dates. I haven't done this in years so I am a regenerated virgin when it comes to dating. I am open to many different relationships, but ultimately would like to meet another man that I could have a LTR with. I can never replace the person that I was with for 25 years, so I am looking for someone to that I am compatible with and has similar interests. Of course, this may change over time. The way I look at my life right at the moment is that I have a clean slate to work from. I can be whomever I want to be, I can explore new things or things that I have always wanted to explore. Maybe someone out there will come along for the ride with me.

Friend, Date, Intimate