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This is incredibly difficult to write as I've been guarded for so long in an attempt to hide who I am and to protect myself from feeling love's scorn. That stops now. I yearn for someone with whom to share life's experiences. I want a true relationship based on friendship, centered on love, and sealed with trust and monogamy; all with that rare individual who understands that perfection doesn't exist and isn't expecting it a partner.

I enjoy working around the house, going to the movies, and shopping. When possible, I love to get away without planning. My favorite movie is The Talented Mr. Ripley. I'm not sure what that says about me. I am most drawn to that film because of the cinematography and the time in which it is set in Italy. I find it irresistibly romantic.

Right now my focus is on changing my lifestyle for healthier living. I'm learning about new foods, how to cook and that meals do come from places other than a drive-thru window. I'm a tall, stocky, guy wanting to return to a more athletic build. Desires sometimes do not become reality, so like me for who I am today and be happy with me if I change in the future.

Now, in the meantime while I'm on my quest for that rare person described above, I'm also looking for friends and fun. Friends is self-explanatory. For "fun", since I'm somewhat inexperienced, I'm looking to gain experience through completely uninhibited safe play. I want to explore every inch of a man's body with my eyes, breath, touch, and tongue. I want to discover new ways to give and receive pleasure by both of us being unashamed about telling each other what we want to do. I can respect discrete situations. I don't want a quick blow and go. I want to spend time playing together. I am and expect you to be non-smoker, ddf, and no poppers.

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Favorite Quote:

You can piss your whole life away trying out who you might be. It's when you've worked out who you are that you can really start to live.

Cancer

Heavyset

6' 4 (1.93 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Not Sure

Legs

Brown

Cat, Dog

Yes

College Degree

Full-time

Other

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Teachers Pet

Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Shy

Camping, Computers, Gambling, Movies, Playing Cards, Religion / Spirituality, Travel

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Middle Of The Road

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Raunchy

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama

Dance, Electronic, Jazz, New age, Pop, Vacuum Cleaner Noises

I Don't Like Reading

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed