I am me. That may be an over-simplified, over-used statement. But, it rings true. I am personable, sometimes energetic; downright hyper even. I am the first to volunteer myself from a crowd. I talk to shop keeps at random and keep myself in high spirits for my own benefit. All the same, I can appreciate just being a person among people and enjoy taking the time to be reflective and introspective. I would rather be found hiking or rock climbing than stuck in a dark, dingy bar; as such, it's pretty safe to assume I don't partake in the "scene" very much.

At the moment, I am a Nursing student, working towards the second bachelor's degree after deciding my first choice wasn't where I needed to be. I've moved back to Sudbury from Toronto in spring of this year and found that I would really like to build some life-long friendships with more people in this city to compliment those that I already have.

Ultimately, I want a long-term relationship. With this in mind I have to get this right out in the open: **** buddies, open relationships, head games and drama in general - I don't appreciate the gay games, and I truly, completely and utterly don't want to get involved. Fostering a strong friendship should be the primary goal, and then move on to whatever may come.
It's sad that we have a community where this even needs to be said, but, going with the obligatory tradition of Sudbury's gay community, I am not looking to get caught up in anyone else's drama, also not looking to be caught up with toxic, superficial people. I judge people on their merits, not their perceived condition, let's hope you are respectful enough to do the same to me and everyone else. Above all else, be genuine to yourself. If you are looking for a quick lay, own it. If you are looking to make friends, act it. If you are looking for a relationship, create it! Otherwise, you are conning and manipulating your way to a very shitty and depressing life, and worse, bringing others down with you.

So, if you've made it thus far in this jaded little box, feel free to message me!

Scorpio

Average

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Arms

Other, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

Black

Dog

Yes

University Degree

Student

Student

Student

Friends Come Over Often

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - One Or Two

Cool Dude

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Drinking, Extreme Sports, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meet up and see where it takes us. I am horrible at planning what to do, my mind draws a blank about 80% of the time. So, meet grab a coffee or drink, take a walk. It's all good, I'm easy to please.

Going rock climbing with a guy (that I can see some longevity with) and fooling around on top of the mountain.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Atheist

Never

Socialist

Become a nurse practitioner and perform public health advocacy and education, maybe open a clinic.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Sports

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Horror, Thriller

Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Jazz, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Punk

News, Ancient, Classic, Health, History, Humor, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Satire, Science, Technical

Grabbing a coffee with a friend or a few, then going on a random adventure to a personally uncharted location and hiking along side a lake, or in a dense forest with a narrow path chatting all the way through. Or just lounging at a pub or somewhere decent for conversation.

Intelligence, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look for a guy with a decent level of self-respect and introspection. Someone that can connect with people and feels comfortable enough to be himself in any situation.

Friend, Date, Committed